Find Clarity, Confidence and Healing

Toxic-Free Relationship Club

Where survivors of narcissistic abuse find expert guidance, real tools, and a community that truly understands.

join the community | connect with others who understand | FIND the help you need to heal

Still Questioning If It Was Abuse?...

The constant walking on eggshells. The confusion after every conversation. The feeling that somehow everything is your fault.

These aren’t weaknesses—they’re the aftermath of narcissistic abuse.

You’re not crazy. You’re not broken. And starting today, you’re not alone anymore.

The Toxic-Free Relationship Club is your sanctuary—a private community where survivors of narcissistic abuse find validation, clarity, and the strength to heal, guided by someone who’s been exactly where you are.

It’s not too much to want peace. Or safety. Or love that doesn’t hurt.

It’s time to feel steady. To feel seen. To feel free. You deserve healing that lasts—healing that leads to clarity, confidence, and peace.

What Narcissistic Abuse Really Feels Like...

Questioning your own memories and perceptions
Constantly walking on eggshells, anxious, or on edge
Apologizing for things that aren't your fault
Having your self-worth has been systematically diminished
Feeling profoundly alone — even with friends and family nearby

If this resonates, you’re experiencing the hallmarks of narcissistic abuse — a particularly devastating form of emotional manipulation that leaves invisible scars.

The worst part? Most people never recognize what’s happening until they’re deeply entangled. And once they do, they often can’t find anyone who truly understands.

It's Time to Break Free!

about the membership

This isn't just another
support group...

This isn’t just another support group…

It’s a comprehensive therapeutic environment built around six dedicated libraries, live access to a retired clinical psychologist, and a community that actually understands. Specifically designed to help you:

→ Cut through the confusion with clinical insights that finally make sense of what you’ve lived through

→ Reconnect you with your own truth, intuition, and worth through guided exercises and community validation

→ Develop real tools to set boundaries, regulate your nervous system, and recognize manipulation as it’s happening

→ Stand among others who’ve lived it, healed from it, and won’t ask you to explain yourself

All guided by Dr. Kerry McAvoy — a retired clinical psychologist with 25 years of experience and a survivor of narcissistic abuse herself.

This is where healing begins…and where it lasts.

how we're different

Expert-Led Guidance

Led by Dr. Kerry McAvoy — a retired clinical psychologist with 25 years of experience and a survivor of narcissistic abuse herself. Few teachers in this space bring both clinical training and lived experience. Even fewer have built a curriculum from both.

Safe & Inclusive Community

A safe, welcoming space where your story is heard, your experience is honored, and you don’t have to explain or justify yourself. Whether you’re ready to share or you need to lurk for a while, you’re welcome here.

Actionable Tools, Not Just Theories

Six dedicated libraries — including 40+ guided grounding practices and 30+ expert interviews — plus weekly live workshops, reflective PDFs, and step-by-step practices that move you out of survival mode and into stability, clarity, and inner peace.

Comprehensive Support at Every Stage

From live coaching multiple times per week to self-paced healing resources you can return to anytime, you’ll find support that fits your life and meets you where you are — whether you’re still inside the relationship, just leaving, or years into recovery.

One Member's Experience

“This club helped me and my kids break out of a toxic relationship. I’ve learned how to co-parent more effectively with a narcissist, and I finally understand things that used to leave me confused and overwhelmed. What I’ve gained here is priceless—it’s not just support, it’s healing.”

Wondering If This Is Right for You?

This community is exactly what you need if:

You're questioning what really happened — and need clinical clarity, not more self-doubt
You've left, but still feel emotionally stuck, disconnected, or unsure who you are anymore
You're still in the relationship and unsure how to cope — or how to leave safely
You feel alone, even with therapy or support from friends who don't fully understand
You want more than validation — you want tools, frameworks, and expert insight you can actually use
You're ready to feel steady again… to stop spiraling and start healing in a way that lasts

Your Membership includes

$ 5 Monthly

Monthly healing theme + weekly activities, blog posts, and reflection prompts ($50 value)
Live Monthly Q&A + Mini-Teaching with Dr. Kerry ($100 value)
Live Quarterly Guest Speaker Events with leading experts ($150 value)
Podcast Extra Library — 30+ exclusive video interviews with podcast guests ($50 value)
Quarterly Guest Library — full archive featuring Bill Eddy, Michele Locke, Peter Salerno, Dr. Les Carter, and more (Value $50)
Monthly Q&A Library — full archive of past Q&As (Value $50)
Direct messaging access to Dr. Kerry (Value $100)

$ 15 Monthly

Everything in Subscriber, plus:
The Club Lounge — exclusive casual gathering space (Value $50)
Live Monthly Book Club Discussions with Dr. Kerry (Value $100)
Book Club Library — full archive of past book discussions (Value $50)
Shares & Victories — celebrate breakthroughs alongside peers (Value $50)
Monthly Topical Deep Dives tied to each month's healing theme (Value $50)

$ 75 Monthly

Everything in Subscriber and Community, plus:
Live Practice with Dr. Kerry — 3 weekly sessions: Tuesdays, Thursdays, & Saturdays (Value $300)
The Weekly Workshop Library — full course-based archive of past workshops (Value $100)
The Re-Centering Library — 40+ guided grounding practices, organized by symptom and situation (Value $100)
The Training Library — exclusive expert interviews with Sandra Brown, Dr. Kristen Milstead, and curated training content (Value $100)

Did you know?

Research has shown that individuals who have supportive relationships with family, friends, or a community tend to heal faster from the effects of trauma. Having a safe place to talk through your experience and receive encouragement and validation from others can help alleviate feelings of isolation and shame.

Meet Your Host

Dr. Kerry McAvoy, Retired Psychologist

What Our Members Have to Say

"I get better help and understanding from this club than any therapist has ever given me. Plus, I can get help and education when it fits into my generally very busy schedule instead of fixed therapist appointments. I just signed up for the Academy for 1 year. Easiest decision I've made in a long time."

"Being a victim of narcissistic abuse has been my life’s worst and most isolating experience. Finding Dr. Kerry and this community group was the rope I was desperately reaching for – they have truly rescued me."

This group has been one of the most amazing experiences, of my journey. It has helped me find security in myself and the world around me. I couldn’t be more thankful to both Dr. Kerry and the group members for everything.

Since joining the Toxic free club, I’ve made big strides overcoming the anxiety and flashbacks that came from the narcissists in my life. The friendship and community support, knowing I’m not alone in my experiences, and having people who understand, listen, and empathize has meant a lot in my healing journey. Reclaiming myself one day at a time.

Dr. Kerry's Toxic Free Relationship Club made a huge difference in my continued healing. It was also a great way for me to transition out of one-on-one therapy and not miss out on the support I needed to continue to heal from a toxic relationship. This group was one of the best things I could have done for myself and my healing. I am so grateful to everyone I have met in this group and to have been a part of something so powerful in my healing journey.

Frequently Asked Questions

What if I’m not sure it was abuse?

That’s okay. Many survivors struggle with doubt—even after leaving. This community helps you unpack what happened, get clear on your experience, and begin healing with support and validation.

Is this safe if I’m still in the relationship?

Yes. Many members are still navigating a toxic relationship. You’re welcome here whether you’ve left or are still trying to figure things out. We offer trauma-informed support, not pressure or judgment.

What if I’m dealing with financial abuse and can’t afford it?

We understand. Finances are often tightly controlled in abusive dynamics. If cost is a barrier, reach out to us directly. We offer financial assistance to those in need—your safety and healing matter more than anything.

Is this private? Will anyone know I joined?

Yes, your privacy is protected. The community is hosted on a secure platform (Mighty Networks). Your participation won’t appear on social media or in public feeds, and your information is never shared.

Can I access this on my phone?

Absolutely. The Mighty Networks app makes it easy to connect, watch replays, and join live sessions from your phone or tablet—wherever you are.

What if I can’t make the live calls?

We offer multiple group coaching calls every week, scheduled at various times throughout the day—so no matter your time zone or schedule, you’ll likely find one that works for you. And if you ever miss a session, all calls are recorded and available in the library to watch anytime. You’ll still have full access to support through our community forums and messaging features.

What’s the difference between this and other support communities?

Most groups offer emotional support. We go deeper. This is a therapeutic environment led by professionals, with live coaching, somatic healing tools, and personalized guidance to help you rebuild from the inside out.

What kind of support is available day-to-day?

You’ll have 24/7 access to our private chat forums, where you can post questions, share wins, and connect with others. Both Dr. Kerry and Lisa actively respond, and you’ll receive support from members walking the same road.