Join Dr. Kerry McAvoy — author, educator with a 25-year background in psychology, and survivor — for expert interviews and deeply validating insight into why these relationships are so confusing, and how to find your way forward.
Are You Feeling Stuck? Take my FREE “Toxic or Troubled?” survey to discover your relationship type and get instant access to a complete, private mini-course—educational overviews, reflective questions, grounding techniques, and new strategies tailored to your situation. ▶ Start here: https://kerrymcavoyphd.fillout.com/toxic-troubled-survey —— What if every explanation you offer becomes ammunition? Have you noticed how a narcissist stays one-up without ever having to raise their voice In this...
Future faking hoovering isn't a change of heart. It's a second round of grooming, aimed at exactly what the first round wanted. In this highlight from Kerry's weekly live Q&A, she takes on what's actually happening when someone shows up with flowers, apologies and a raked pile of leaves after months of silence — and why the answer has almost nothing to do with you. In this episode: • Why not being hoovered is a read on what you had left to give • Hoovering is a role vacancy, not a longi...
What if naming the disorder never actually got you out? And what if the thing you've been calling proof was really just a way to feel in control? In this episode, Kerry and co-host Lynn Strathdee take on the debate splitting the recovery world right now — one universal predator type, or many distinct subtypes. You can know exactly what someone is and stay anyway. You can't choose your neighbor, your coworker, or the parent sitting next to you at the PTA meeting. Understanding the diagnosis ...
UK psychotherapist, expert in echoism, and fellow survivor
Why do some of the narcissist’s put-downs wreck me while others just bounce off
Why do they walk away from a fight feeling fine while I’m left shaken for days
Does it matter whether they knew what they were doing?
Why am I getting duped by covert narcissists?
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Dr. Kerry McAvoy is an author, educator, and narcissistic abuse expert with a 25-year background in psychology.
She combines research-informed frameworks with personal insight to help people navigate toxic dynamics, break free from cognitive dissonance, and reclaim their lives.
“Lynn Strathdee is a UK-based Psychodynamic Therapist and relationship abuse recovery specialist with years of clinical and lived experience.
She combines deep psychological insight with personal understanding to help survivors make sense of what happened — and find their way back to safety and themselves.
