Dreading Their Next Message? How to Stop the Toxicity With a Narcissistic Co-Parent

May 11, 2026 No Comments

Are you bracing for impact when your phone buzzes? Does every conversation turn into a nasty fight? This week, Sol Kennedy joins Dr. Kerry to reveal why co-parenting is never get better when dealing with a narcissistic or an emotionally immature co-parent. Learn why courts don’t understand narcissistic co-parents will never become reasonable and why most co-parenting apps only make the conflict worse. Sol Kennedy shares how to take back control by changing the entire dynamic. List…

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5 Years of Stalking Hell After an Interaction With a Neighbor

May 7, 2026 No Comments

What happens when a simple, healthy boundary triggers five years of stalking, dismantling your life? A viewer declined an odd social interaction with a neighbor that then sparked a stalking campaign that has followed her and her 15-year-old daughter across state lines. Learn what’s called “street theater” and how these repeated tactics were ussd to make this victim sound crazy. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains: • Why the public tends to dismiss extreme gang stalking stori…

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Confessions of a Womanizer: “How I Became a Narcissist’s Perfect Victim”

May 4, 2026 No Comments

What happens when the man who spent years love bombing and manipulating women becomes the victim of the very same tactics? This week, Wade Belair joins Dr. Kerry for a raw, unflinching conversation about the shocking overlap between closeted men and narcissistic abuse — and what genuine healing actually requires. Wade grew up the privileged son of an iconic retail brand founder — raised in an elite, hyper-masculine culture where conquest was currency, and vulnerability was weakness. He play…

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The Dark Truth About Growing Up Without a Mother’s Love

April 30, 2026 No Comments

A listener from Australia writes in: “l have been jealous of women who are loved unconditionally because being raised by a mother who cannot or does not love you, fully and completely without condition, entangles every aspect of you until many women are seething with anger, confusion, and hate.” In this episode, Kerry McAvoy, PhD explores why the mother wound – the emotional neglect left by a mother who withheld unconditional love – runs so deep. Whether your mother was narcissistic, em…

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Why We Fail to See the Warning Signs When Women Become Dangerous (feat. Anna Motz)

April 27, 2026 No Comments

Why are we more afraid of a violent woman than a violent man, even though men commit the vast majority of violent crimes? This week, forensic and clinical psychologist Anna Motz joins Dr. Kerry to pull back the curtain on one of society’s most carefully avoided truths: women are capable of real violence, and we’ve been trained not to see it. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabu…

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When You Finally Leave—Why a Narcissist Becomes a “Monster”

April 23, 2026 No Comments

If you’re experiencing betrayal trauma after discovering your spouse’s secret life, how do you finally leave a long-term narcissistic partner without triggering their rage? A listener from the US writes in, “We’ve been in and out of therapy for 7 years trying to save our marriage. Two months ago I found out he wasn’t sober again. I left and I’m now living with my mother. How do I get out without him turning into a monster? I need strength. I need to be done.” In this episode, Kerr…

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Keep Finding Yourself in the Same Toxic Relationships? How to Break the Pattern

April 20, 2026 No Comments

Have you ever looked back at your relationships and realized they all feel disturbingly familiar? That’s not a coincidence — it’s your relationship blueprint at work. This week, therapist, bestselling author of Why Do I Keep Doing This?, and mental health YouTuber Kati Morton joins Dr. Kerry to break down why so many of us keep repeating toxic relationship patterns — and what it actually takes to rewrite them. Together, they unpack the attachment theory, childhood blueprints, peo…

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Is Your Partner Hiding Money? How Narcissists Use Finances to Control You

April 16, 2026 No Comments

Why does a partner hide money, and is it always a sign of financial abuse? A viewer from the US writes in, “He is very good at hiding money using apps and credit cards. How do I find out what he’s hiding?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down the difference between financial secrecy and financial abuse and how to reclaim your power in an unsafe relationship. Submit Your Question If you’d like Dr. Kerry to answer your question on air, email it to clients@kerrymcavoyphd.com …

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Why Covert Narcissists Always Make You Feel Guilty (Even When You’ve Done Nothing Wrong)

April 13, 2026 No Comments

Covert narcissism (NPD) is the hardest form of narcissistic abuse to identify — and the most damaging. Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling like you did something wrong — even though you can’t quite explain what? In this episode, Dr. Kerry McAvoy sits down with Dr. Anthony Mazzella (The Narcissism Decoder) to break down exactly how covert narcissists use guilt and victimhood to keep you trapped. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive secon…

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Why Narcissists Always Make Their Victims Look Unhinged

April 9, 2026 No Comments

Why does the person who calls out a narcissist end up looking like the unhinged one? A Facebook follower writes in, “Why does the person recognizing and confronting the narcissistic behavior often appear unhinged to everyone else?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissists always appear calm and credible while their victims come across as unstable. Submit Your Question If you’d like Dr. Kerry to answer your question on air, email it to clients@kerrymcavoyphd.com or…

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