The divorce papers are signed. The marriage is over. But for survivors of narcissistic abuse, the legal system is often where the abuse escalates — not ends. In this conversation, Kerry McAvoy and Family Law Attorney Diana Romanov decode the legal tactics narcissists weaponize after you leave. How conflict avoidance becomes your abuser’s most powerful legal advantage. Learn how the earliest red flags predict exactly how dangerous the divorce will be. Exclusive Podcast Extra Segme…

They said they were managing the finances — because you weren’t good with money. That every purchase had to go through them. But somehow, there was always money for what they wanted. They made you feel like a child asking for an allowance — in your own home. And the moment you tried to leave, you realized you had nothing. Because they had made sure of it. That wasn’t financial stress. That was financial control. This Thursday episode, Kerry reads from real accounts from people who lived insid…

He checked the grocery receipt. And the look on his face said everything: he expected to catch you at something. You weren’t a partner. You were a suspected thief. But that moment — that first time money became a surveillance tool — didn’t come out of nowhere. It didn’t start with the receipts, or the interrogations, or the separate account he opened without telling you. It started the moment he made you feel like the luckiest person alive. Because that feeling — of being ch…

They said they were managing the finances — because you weren’t good with money. That every purchase had to go through them. But somehow, there was always money for what they wanted. They made you feel like a child asking for an allowance — in your own home. And the moment you tried to leave, you realized you had nothing. Because they had made sure of it. That wasn’t financial stress. That was financial control. This Thursday episode, Kerry reads from your stories — re…

Your child comes home from a visit with the other parent guarded. Repeating things they couldn’t have come up with on their own. Now they’re looking at you differently. That’s not just “divorce being hard.” That’s a smear campaign — and your narcissistic ex has recruited your own children to run it. This week, Dr. Josh Davis — neuroscientist, psychologist, and author of The Difference That Makes a Difference — joins Kerry McAvoy to break down exactly how narcissistic exes weaponiz…