In this episode, Dr. Kerry identifies the often missed sadism dressed up as pranks in this breakdown of a Smosh Pit podcast retelling of a Reddit story. We often feel the “flinch” or wrongness of the sadistic behavior in our body before categorizing it as intentionally hurtful.

The most dangerous narcissists don’t go ballistic: they peck you to death. After spending decades studying dangerous personalities, former FBI agent Joe Navarro has learned that the cruelest narcissistic abuse almost never looks the way we expect. It hides behind the withheld compliment, the public put-down disguised as a joke, the silent treatment and the affection that never comes. In this conversation, Joe and Dr. Kerry McAvoy name the covert sadism living inside everyday relationshi…

Abuse is something we imagine happens behind closed doors. For a lot of survivors, some of the most frightening moments happened not just in the home but in the passenger seat of a moving car. In this Viewers’ Stories episode, Dr. Kerry pulls directly from your comments and unpacks what each one reveals about how narcissists weaponize the car. It was never about losing the narcissist losing their temper. It was about control. And if you’ve ever braced yourself just getting into the car with s…

If you’ve ever been in a car with a narcissist, then you’ve likely seen them turn the vehicle into a weapon. In this podcast episode, learn how and why road rage and other property damage are frequent narcissistic abusers’ tools of choice.