Why Did They Pick You? The Trait in ‘Good’ People Narcissists Love to Exploit

Why do narcissists target good, empathetic people in relationships? This week, forensic psychologist Dr. Peter Favaro reveals why being a good person might actually make you MORE vulnerable to narcissists—and how that one irrational belief creates the exact confusion toxic people exploit. Wondering if you met a “bad person?” Find out with this free gift from Dr. Kerry! PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE AB…

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Why Narcissists Follow You When You Move Away—And How to Create Distance That Actually Works

My narcissistic brother is relocating to town after I moved away to escape him—why is he doing this? In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissists will often close the gap when there’s physical distance. How do you gain psychological distance when you can’t move away? She also offers helpful strategies for creating boundaries when distance fails. Submit Your Question If you’d like Dr. Kerry to answer your question on air, email it to clients@kerrymcavoyphd.com or use t…

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Struggling with Post-Separation Abuse? Get Real Help from a Surprising Direction

Are you struggling with post-separation abuse and drowning in documentation? This week, Anne Wintemute introduces AimeeSays—an AI tool that helps abuse survivors make sense of chaos, document their experience, and present their story in a way family court will actually hear. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Anne reveals how to use AI to document abuse to ov…

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Feeling the Urge to Snoop on Your Partner? Here’s What It’s Really Telling You

“I found proof he was cheating—but was snooping really what I needed to finally leave?” This week’s Fan Mail comes from a listener in Dublin, CA, who, after reading Dr. Kerry’s book “Love You More,” recognized her own relationship mirrored Dr. Kerry’s experience, including the urge to snoop. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why the urge to snoop is actually all the evidence you need that something’s wrong and why finding “proof” never actually breaks the cognitive dissonance. &…

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How Narcissists Trap You: A New Movie Shows Gaslighting & Coercive Control

Ever wonder why narcissists feel impossible to leave—even when you know something’s wrong? This week, filmmakers Ali & Stefanie Schmahl reveal how their docu-fiction hybrid “I Love You My Narcissist” portrays what no other film has: the internal experience of being slowly trapped by someone you love. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Ali and Stefanie take you …

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When Your Abuser Won’t Leave and Won’t Change: Here’s Your Options

“My abusive partner refuses to leave or get help—and I’m trapped in a ‘silent divorce.’ What are my actual options?” This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener navigating an impossible situation: a long marriage, adult children, religious pressure against divorce, and an abusive partner who wants to maintain the status quo without doing any of the work to change. In this episode, Dr. Kerry untangles the confusion between church annulment and legal separation, expl…

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Why You’re Struggling to Feel Empathy for Yourself — Tammy Triolo

Lost empathy for yourself? You’ve already lost the fight. This week, Tammy Triolo reveals the shocking connection between self-empathy loss and narcissistic abuse. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Tammy walks you through recognizing when thoughts are just thoughts—not truth—and how to stop surrendering to negative beliefs. Get immediate access to this ext…

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Gaslit by Your Doctor? Why Healthcare Attracts Narcissists and How to Protect Yourself

“My doctor keeps telling me it’s all in my head—but I know something’s wrong. Why won’t they listen?” This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a podcast listener who writes: “Dear Kerry, could you do a podcast on the topic of narcissism, psychopathy and healthcare?…” In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down why healthcare settings attract people who crave power and control, how the doctor-patient dynamic creates dangerous vulnerability, and why women are especially at risk of medica…

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You’ve Been Made to Think It’s Your Fault: The Truth About Predatory Behavior

Ever wonder why you didn’t see it coming? This week, Don Hennessy joins Dr. Kerry to expose the hidden playbook male predators use to infiltrate your mind—without you knowing it happened. We unpack the shocking truth about what predators are actually really after. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Hennessy breaks down the grooming steps you never saw coming. Don …

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Does Narcissism Come and Go? Why Narcissists Seem Better & Then Suddenly Aren’t

Does Narcissism Come and Go? What “Good Periods” With a Narcissist Really Mean This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Dubai who writes: “Can narcissism in a person wax and wane? There’s been years when my husband was acting like a narcissist, and then there’s also been chunks of years where he’s been incredibly supportive and uplifting. Can a narcissist change depending on their current situation?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissistic behavior can a…

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