Why has the person who claimed to love you gone years without once saying your name — not even once? When a narcissist won’t say your name, it isn’t a quirk. It’s name erasure: a slow, deliberate way of treating you as less than a full person. In this Viewers’ Stories episode, Dr. Kerry reads real survivor stories and unpacks four ways the same tactic shows up. Each one is a covert control tactic, and together they’re a form of withholding affection most survivors don’t recognize as emotional…

Narcissists and other character-disturbed partners do odd things with their loved ones’ names. Learn the four different patterns of this minimizing and objectifying psychological tactic.

Were you born into a cult — or did you unknowingly marry one? If you’ve ever felt trapped, controlled, and unable to trust your own reality — whether in a religion, a family system, or a relationship — you may have been living inside a cult of two. Narcissistic abuse operates through the same coercive control and psychological manipulation that keep cult members from ever questioning their reality. Brooke Deanne, trauma healing mentor and author of Shattered, Broken and Beau…