Narcissists and other character-disturbed partners do odd things with their loved ones’ names. Learn the four different patterns of this minimizing and objectifying psychological tactic.
What if the sweet pet name your partner calls you isn’t affection at all — but rather designed to keep you off balance? In this episode, Dr. Kerry and co-host Lynn Strathdee unpack one of the strangest and most overlooked patterns in narcissistic relationships: the use of pet names. Learn why some narcissists even speak … Read more
Were you born into a cult — or did you unknowingly marry one? If you’ve ever felt trapped, controlled, and unable to trust your own reality — whether in a religion, a family system, or a relationship — you may have been living inside a cult of two. Narcissistic abuse operates through the same coercive … Read more
Have you heard of an Alpine Divorce? During a listener’s two-year marriage to a psychopath, her husband took her hiking and then left her clinging to a rock in gale-force winds while he filmed her terror and laughed. This is what’s commonly called an “Alpine Divorce.” It is also an example of malignant sadism. In … Read more
As we honor Memorial Day, there’s another war, one we rage with narcissists – something that rages invisible, deliberate, and inside the most intimate relationships. This episode is dedicated to you. In this special compilation, 5 world-class experts answer the questions survivors ask most: How did I end up here? Why didn’t I see it … Read more
A YouTube viewer asks: What about someone’s makeup drives them to snoop instead of simply addressing the red flags? In this episode, Dr. Kerry digs deeper into a question raised in the February 19, 2026, Fan Mail segment, Feeling the Urge to Snoop on Your Partner? Here’s What It’s Really Telling You. Learn why victims … Read more
Co-parenting with a narcissist shouldn’t mean bracing for impact every time your phone buzzes. This week, Sol Kennedy — creator of the AI co-parenting app BestInterest — joins Dr. Kerry to reveal how artificial intelligence is finally stepping in as a buffer, filtering out the threats, the manipulation, and the chaos before it reaches you. … Read more
If you’re experiencing betrayal trauma after discovering your spouse’s secret life, how do you finally leave a long-term narcissistic partner without triggering their rage? A listener from the US writes in, “We’ve been in and out of therapy for 7 years trying to save our marriage. Two months ago I found out he wasn’t sober … Read more
Why does the person who calls out a narcissist end up looking like the unhinged one? A Facebook follower writes in, “Why does the person recognizing and confronting the narcissistic behavior often appear unhinged to everyone else?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissists always appear calm and credible while their victims come across … Read more
Are you walking into your divorce expecting the court to finally see the truth about your narcissistic ex? This week, divorce attorney Hannah Bell Hembree joins Dr. Kerry to pull back the curtain on what really happens in the courtroom when you’re leaving a narcissist. With nearly two decades of legal experience and her own … Read more