When You Finally Leave—Why a Narcissist Becomes a “Monster”

If you’re experiencing betrayal trauma after discovering your spouse’s secret life, how do you finally leave a long-term narcissistic partner without triggering their rage? A listener from the US writes in, “We’ve been in and out of therapy for 7 years trying to save our marriage. Two months ago I found out he wasn’t sober … Read more

Why Calling Out a Narcissist Always Backfires

Why does the person who calls out a narcissist end up looking like the unhinged one? A Facebook follower writes in, “Why does the person recognizing and confronting the narcissistic behavior often appear unhinged to everyone else?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissists always appear calm and credible while their victims come across … Read more

The #1 Mistake People Make When Divorcing a Narcissist

Are you walking into your divorce expecting the court to finally see the truth about your narcissistic ex? This week, divorce attorney Hannah Bell Hembree joins Dr. Kerry to pull back the curtain on what really happens in the courtroom when you’re leaving a narcissist. With nearly two decades of legal experience and her own … Read more

Do Narcissists Enjoy Hurting You? Here’s Dr. Kerry’s Hard Truth

Why does someone who divorces a narcissist keep going back to them? A listener writes in, “My best friend divorced her narcissistic ex two months ago — but she keeps talking to him, then ignoring him, then reaching out again. She says she wants to move on, but she can’t seem to break the cycle.” … Read more

My Brother Is Stealing My Mother’s Final Years & She Refuses to Stop Him

My 62-year-old narcissistic brother moved in with my 86-year-old mother “temporarily” after his divorce six years ago. Now she’s suffocating, the rest of the family stays away, and she won’t let anyone intervene. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why some mothers choose guilt over peace — and what to do when someone refuses to … Read more

Why Did They Pick You? The Trait in ‘Good’ People Narcissists Love to Exploit

Why do narcissists target good, empathetic people in relationships? This week, forensic psychologist Dr. Peter Favaro reveals why being a good person might actually make you MORE vulnerable to narcissists—and how that one irrational belief creates the exact confusion toxic people exploit. Wondering if you met a “bad person?” Find out with this free gift … Read more

When Your Abuser Won’t Leave and Won’t Change: Here’s Your Options

“My abusive partner refuses to leave or get help—and I’m trapped in a ‘silent divorce.’ What are my actual options?” This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener navigating an impossible situation: a long marriage, adult children, religious pressure against divorce, and an abusive partner who wants to maintain the status quo without … Read more