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Dr. Les Carter on the #1 Sign Someone Lacks Emotional Maturity in Conflict

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What’s the single biggest giveaway that someone lacks emotional maturity — especially when the pressure’s on?

In this episode, Dr. Les Carter, psychologist, best-selling author, and expert on narcissism and emotional health, reveals the #1 sign of low emotional maturity during conflict. We dive into how this pattern plays out in everyday disagreements, and what you can do to protect your own emotional space when dealing with it.

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• The Anger Trap: Free Yourself from the Frustrations that Sabotage Your Life
• The Anger Workbook: An Interactive Guide to Anger Management
• Imperative People – Those Who Must Be in Control

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