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Your Birthday Was Rigged to Fail: How Narcissists Sabotage Special Days

July 16, 2026

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Your Birthday Was Rigged to Fail: How Narcissists Sabotage Special Days
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It's your special day. Your birthday. Maybe the narcissist participated in the build-out or maybe they pretended not to notice. But you knew. And you got your hopes up. Perhaps this birthday will go differently.

What you didn't expect was to spend the rest of your birthday managing their feelings.

In this Viewers' Stories episode, Dr. Kerry shares submitted accounts of birthdays that ended in tears, anniversaries engineered to fail, and being asked to comfort the person who hurt you.

This is the Thursday companion to Monday's episode, “Why Narcissists Destroy Your Best Days — It's Not Forgetfulness, It's Sadism,” with psychotherapist Lynn Strathdee

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