Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

Dr. Les Carter: Stop Trying to Make a Narcissist Understand You — Do This Instead

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What if every explanation you offer becomes ammunition? Have you noticed how a narcissist stays one-up without ever having to raise their voice

In this episode, Kerry and Dr. Les Carter expose the hidden power mechanics that keep you arguing in circles. Many narcissists use the Gotcha Game which flips every conversation into a confrontation because it’s all about power.

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In the exclusive podcast extra, Kerry and Les get practical. Learn how to hold your ground, take your exit, and let go of the need to convince them.

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DR. LES CARTER is the creator of Surviving Narcissism, an author and educator helping survivors build self-trust, healthy boundaries, and stay out of the power trap with a narcissist.
WEBSITE: https://survivingnarcissism.tv/

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