Gray divorce isn't a midlife crisis. For a lot of people, it's the end of a con that ran for decades.
When researchers ask why people divorce after 50, the top answer from women isn't money or infidelity — it was abuse.
In this highlight from Kerry's weekly live Q&A, she takes on why so many people stay in psychologically abusive marriages for 20 or 30 years, and why leaving late isn't a failure of judgment.
In this episode:
* Why boomers are divorcing at four times the rate of 1990
* Why the mask falls on the honeymoon, in pregnancy, or after the baby arrives
* The attribution bias that made you call a pattern a mistake
* Why every “fresh start” was engineered — and why you weren't foolish, you were fooled
* The staircase of escalation: from control to criticism to being told you “just don't think”
* Why leaving late is a sign of strength, not weakness
#GrayDivorce #CovertNarcissist #CovertNarcissism #NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #Manipulation #TraumaRecovery #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #HealingJourney #MentalHealth
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Resources
- The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
- First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
- Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support
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Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., an author and educator, helps listeners decode toxic dynamics, recognize manipulation, and rebuild self-trust.
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