Devastated After Betrayal? Here’s Why: The Hidden Abuse That No One Talks About

January 12, 2026 No Comments

Ever wonder why betrayal feels so devastating—like more than just cheating? This week, Hope Ray joins Dr. Kerry to introduce the concept of betrayal violence: the intersection of infidelity and abuse that most people don’t recognize. We explore how sexual secrets strip partners of their consent and autonomy. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW 🔹 When you’re the victim: How…

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Can Someone Be Both Covert AND Overt? Understanding Narcissistic Types & What Actually Matters

January 8, 2026 No Comments

“My partner has traits of both covert and overt narcissism—is that possible?” This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a podcast listener who writes: “Can a person be both a covert and an overt narcissist? I’m hearing the descriptions of each and my partner has traits of both.” In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down the confusing language around narcissistic types—what “covert” and “overt” actually mean (hint: they describe symptoms, not people), why your partner can absolutely show bot…

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You Can Love Them and Still Be Exploited: Sexual Coercion with Cult Expert Pamela Takefman

January 5, 2026 No Comments

Ever wondered how someone can exploit you sexually while you still love them? This week, Pamela Takefman joins Dr. Kerry to explain how sexual coercion works—and why it doesn’t always require kidnapping or obvious physical force to be real. Learn how perpetrators gradually test boundaries until extreme exploitation feels normal, and why loving your abuser doesn’t mean the abuse isn’t real. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here…

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Narcissistic In-Laws: Why They Deny the Truth (and What to Do)

December 29, 2025 No Comments

Ever wonder why your in-laws rallied around your abusive partner instead of protecting you? This episode explores one of the most painful dynamics in narcissistic abuse: when families choose to protect the abuser and paint YOU as the problem. We revisit a past interview with Rossana where she shares her firsthand experience of this dynamic along with a Fan Mail listener who experienced something similar. PODCAST EXTRA Next week, the Podcast Extra exclusive interviews will re…

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When Dangerous People Don’t Look Scary: How to Spot the Dark Triad Personality Type

December 22, 2025 No Comments

Can a psychopath be a good person? And how do we spot dangerous people when they seem so charming? This holiday special brings you an in-depth answer to one of your most-asked questions with highlights from Dr. Kerry’s interview with Tara Blair Ball about the Dark Triad Personality. We explore why dangerous people don’t look scary and the critical difference between niceness and kindness. PODCAST EXTRA This week, there is no exclusive Podcast Extra interview. Instead,…

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How Do I Know If I’m in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship? Watch for These Signs

December 18, 2025 No Comments

“How do I know if I’m in an emotionally abusive relationship?” asks a YouTube listener. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why even asking this question is an important sign of possible trouble. Dr Kerry will outline what emotional abuse actually looks like (hint: it’s not about one-off incidents—it’s about patterns) and why you might feel like you’re shrinking or walking on eggshells. Abusive relationships turn people into functional objects instead of letting them shine as a fu…

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When Your Family Chooses the Narcissist Over You: What Survivors Must Know

December 15, 2025 No Comments

Ever felt like you’re the problem in your family—even when you’re the one being hurt? This week, Ágatha Peters joins Dr. Kerry to explore how cultural expectations and family loyalty create the perfect conditions for narcissistic abuse to thrive undetected. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW 🔹 Stuck as the family scapegoat? Wondering how to survive when you can’t leave? Ág…

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Why Does Surviving Narcissistic Abuse Turn You into Someone You Don’t Recognize?

December 11, 2025 No Comments

You dodged a bullet!” No—the bullet hit me. I just survived. This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who writes: “People tell me I dodged a bullet. But the bullet hit me—I just survived. I feel like it turned me into a monster. The PTSD caused me to start reacting more strongly to smaller triggers and even did abusive things myself in what I felt was self-defense.” In this episode, Dr. Kerry addresses why “you dodged a bullet” feels so wrong, what survivor’s guilt re…

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How are Narcissists Made: Is it Trauma or Genetic? Here’s What Dr. Salerno Thinks

December 8, 2025 No Comments

Is narcissism caused by genetics or trauma? Ever heard “narcissists act that way because of bad parenting” or “because they’ve experienced trauma?” This week, Dr. Peter Salerno returns to challenge everything you thought you knew about the cause of narcissistic personality disorder. We’re diving into the controversial science of heritability. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW 🔹…

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Were You the Family Scapegoat? Why Sensitive People Get Targeted First

December 4, 2025 No Comments

This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a Spotify listener: “Can you please do an episode on scapegoat children?” Why do some people get scapegoated, especially in families? Dr. Kerry explains the role of the scapegoat and how families use this person to address systemic stress and dysfunctional. Submit Your Question If you’d like your question addressed on air, send it here: 👉 https://kerrymcavoyphd.fillout.com/fan-mail Submit your question to be answered on air here! Re…

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