“My coworker is a narcissist—and so is our boss. What happens when two narcissists have to work together?” This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who writes: “Thank you for all your content! Very helpful. I am curious to know – what tends to happen when ‘a narcissist meets a narcissist’ – … Read more
“My partner has traits of both covert and overt narcissism—is that possible?” This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a podcast listener who writes: “Can a person be both a covert and an overt narcissist? I’m hearing the descriptions of each and my partner has traits of both.” In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down … Read more
Youtube full title: “I Didn’t Dodge the Bullet—It Hit Me”: Understanding Survivor’s Guilt & PTSD After Narcissistic Abuse” SHOW NOTES: You dodged a bullet!” No—the bullet hit me. I just survived. This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who writes: “People tell me I dodged a bullet. But the bullet hit me—I … Read more
Can a psychopath be a good person? And how do we spot dangerous people when they seem so charming? This holiday special brings you an in-depth answer to one of your most-asked questions with highlights from Dr. Kerry’s interview with Tara Blair Ball about the Dark Triad Personality. We explore why dangerous people don’t look … Read more
Dr. Les Carter has spent decades studying narcissists, and in this retrospective, he reveals what most people miss until it’s too late. Narcissists seem so perfect at first—charming, attentive, interested in everything about you. But something felt off, didn’t it? We revisit five groundbreaking conversations about what’s really happening behind the mask: why they can’t … Read more
“Is the Dark Triad a real disorder—or just a dangerous type?” This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Germany who writes after a recent video: “You called ‘dark triad’ a personality disorder, but it isn’t in the DSM-5. Isn’t it a subclinical descriptor?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry clarifies what is the … Read more
Ever wonder why you keep attracting the same kind of person—the ones who feel magnetic at first but end up draining you emotionally? This week, therapist and author Jessica Baum, creator of Anxiously Attached and SAFE: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building Secure Relationships, joins Dr. Kerry to explore the hidden attachment wounds that pull us … Read more
Ever feel blindsided by someone who seemed charming, helpful, or even caring—only to realize later they were quietly dismantling your peace? This week, conflict expert Bill Eddy, author of The Five Types of People That Ruin Your Life, joins Dr. Kerry to unpack the five high-conflict personality types most likely to cause chaos in relationships, … Read more
Can you really heal a trauma bond—or is the damage permanent? This week’s Fan Mail features two powerful questions. The first comes from a YouTube listener who asks: “Is it really possible to break a trauma bond? Even Dr. Ramani says she still struggles daily—so what’s the point of fighting, especially if kids are involved?” … Read more
Send us a text This week, I’m pulling back the curtain on something few of us talk about—the emotional toll of surviving narcissistic abuse after the relationship ends. Healing is hard. Helping others heal while still navigating your own recovery? Even harder. In this episode, I share why I’m taking a short summer hiatus—and how … Read more